Feliz Cumpleanos!

Last Sunday I experienced my first Peruvian quinceañera when one of the girls in our church named Paolo turned 15. Birthdays are a very special occasion here in Peru—especially a girl’s 15th Birthday, which they call her “quinceañera.” The event was announced well in advance at our church and over 100 people attended. Members of our church worked together to decorate the church, provide special music, prepare the food, and create a PowerPoint of Paolo’s life. Paolo had a beautiful formal dress made for the occasion.

The event was to begin at 5 p.m. but actually began after 6 p.m. This is customary in Peru—if it would actually begin at 5, no one would be there yet! Being late for things is simply the Peruvian way of life. It is neither right nor wrong—only different. The ceremony included Paolo being escorted by her father down the aisle, preceded by her mother and friends that carried flowers, much like a wedding ceremony in the United States (minus the groomJ). Scripture was read to Paolo by her friends, a message and prayer of dedication were given by Pastor Evelio, and special words were presented by her parents. Much focus was given to challenging Paolo to stay pure until marriage, and a purity ring was placed on her finger by her father. In addition to a trumpet duet and vocal solo, I was honored to play a special on the piano for the ceremony. This opportunity was made even more special because I played on a keyboard that was presented to Paolo by her parents as a Birthday gift. Paolo is learning to play the piano, and she was thrilled to tears when she received this special gift at her quinceañera. A full course meal was then served, the PowerPoint was presented, and the spectacular 3-layer cake was served!

I was impressed with the entire event, but especially with the presentation of the purity ring and with the amount of time, money, and effort put into making the evening special for Paolo. I will never forget my first experience of a quinceañera, and I’m sure Paolo will never forget this one either!